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STEPHEN SHARKEY SKAFF

 

     Stephen Sharkey Skaff, 41, of Lowell, died Monday, June 20th at Brigham & Women’s Hospital in Boston after a long battle with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. He was the beloved husband of Lisa A. (Puls) Skaff with whom he recently celebrated their 12th wedding anniversary on April 17th of this year.
   
Born in Lowell, July 21, 1969, the son of Chakeep “Sharkey” and Laurence (Kach) Skaff of Lowell, he attended Lowell Schools and was a graduate of Lowell High School in the Class of 1987. He then went on to graduate from Fitchburg State College with a Bachelors Degree in Education.
   
Most recently, Stephen was employed as a Math Teacher and Middle School Math Coordinator within the Lawrence Public School System.
    
Well known within the community, he was the former Boys Varsity Basketball Coach at Lowell Catholic High School for several years through the 2009/2010 season. Previously, he was an Assistant Coach for the Fitchburg State College Girls Varsity Basketball team.
   
Stephen’s true love was spending time with his children and family. Among his many interests, Stephen loved playing golf, cards, and watching various sporting events with friends. He was also an avid participant in fantasy football and baseball leagues. 
   
He was a longtime member of St. George’s Antiochian Orthodox Church in Lowell. He was also a parishioner of St. Margaret Church in Lowell.
   
Besides his wife and parents, Stephen is survived by his two beloved daughters Lily Laurence Skaff and Sara Judith Skaff both of Lowell; a sister Nicole M. Skaff of Lowell; a brother George E. Skaff of Methuen; his father-in-law and mother-in-law Joseph W. and Judith A. (Reams) Puls of Tewksbury; his sister-in-law Christen M. Roy and her husband Timothy of Windham, ME; his brother-in-law Stephen W. Puls and his wife Lisa C. of Bedford, MA; a niece Allison Puls; two nephews Justin Puls who was also his godson and Kyle Roy; and many loving  aunts, uncles and cousins.
   
Stephen was very blessed with many good and loyal friends who were an important part of his life.

SKAFF – In Boston, June 20, 2011, at Brigham & Women’s, Stephen Sharkey Skaff, 41, of Lowell, husband of Lisa A. (Puls) Skaff. Friends may call at ST. GEORGE’S ANTIOCHIAN ORTHODOX CHURCH, 44 Bowers St. in Lowell from 4 to 8 P.M. Thursday. His Funeral Service will take place at the church on Friday morning at 10 o’clock. Burial in Westlawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may make contributions in his memory to the Jimmy Fund, c/o Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284-9168 or www.jimmyfund.org.  E-condolence/directions at www.odonnellfuneralhome.com.  Arrangements by Funeral Directors James F. O’Donnell, Jr. and John W. Crane (978 or 866)458-8768.

Condolences (21)
  • PE
    Not a day goes by your not in my thoughts. Miss you so much!
  • Unknown  - Still Miss you
    Steve, Miss you kid! You were a good person it this is just so unfair!
  • Alice David  - In memory of Steven Skaff
    Love never dies. It lives in the soul of our beloved Steven. His beautiful spirit from God will be cherished forever. That memory helps us carry on. We share the love of family and friends in making it eternal! God's blessings and the most heartfelt sympathy always to his wife Lisa and his beautiful children Lily and Sarah, my brother Sharky, his wife Laurence and my nephew and niece George and Nicole! God rest his soul, memory eternal! It was the saddest day of my life because I wasn't there to pay my last respect. I will never forget that, but my son and daughter were there on my behalf. With love always, Aunt Alice and Rick
  • Jill LaBonte
    Lisa, I know you from Planet Dance and my daughter Olivia danced with your daughter. I sat in front of you last week at the recital as we cheered the girls on. God Bless you and your beautiful girls and God Bless Stephen. I am praying for you, and thinking of you and the girls. Stephen will be in your hearts for always. Love, Jill and Olivia LaBonte'
  • Joan & Gregory Hagopian, Brade  - Dear Sharkey and Laurence
    Even though we never knew your son, we want you to know that we were deeply saddened to hear about Stephen. May he rest in peace and may his memory be eternal. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless all of you!! Friends, formerly from Lowell.
  • FADI SKAF  - DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FROM OVER SEAS
    MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU COUSINS. I WISH I COULD BE NEXT TO YOU. FADI SLEIMAN SKAF (QATAR)
  • Melissa
    My apologies, as I meant to write "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal". Thinking of you today. Melissa
  • Debbie Simon
    My deepest sympathy to the Skaff family. My all the beautiful memories of Stephen comfort you at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • mildred sutton & melvin  - george: with sympathy to you and your family
    In the loss of one who was dear to all of you ...may the strength you give each other and the special warmth and closeness your family shares with love bring you peace and comfort.
  • The Barsorian Family  -  Dear Lisa and family
    We are so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God Bless, and keep you during this difficult time.
  • Andrea Mitchell  - Old Pal From Lowell High School days
    I got the news about the passing of Steve and wanted to reach out to you all saying how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your father, husband, brother and son. Although I did not know Steve as a man, I saw back in school the man he was becoming, glimpses of that man that were building in this great kid I remember and have only fond memories of. I feel lucky to say I knew him, proud to have found memories of high school with him and humbled greatly at knowing how delicate life truly is and that we, all of us, need to always respect and cherish it everyday. Steve was a great guy then and I am sure that only grew stronger as he did. You are all very lucky to have had him in your lives as you did and to have time well spent and a life well lived with him. Thinking of you all during this time Sincerely, Andrea Mitchell New York City
  • Melissa Crowshaw
    "Pulsar", "Death leaves a heartache no one can steal. Love leaves a memory no one can heal." May the comfort you feel in the days ahead and the love you shared sustain you. Thinking of you and your beautiful daughters - Melissa
  • The Deeb Family and Kids- Cous
    You will be truely missed our blessings and prayers are with you.
  • brian santana  - ill miss you mr.skaff
    wow this is so surprising , this news hit me around 130 today i was so suprised. it so sad i want to cry. ikonw youll be miss be everyone such an funny guy and fun teacher at the arlington for so long....this is not goodbye ....see you later in heaven.R.I.P MR.SKAFF
  • Sean and Athena Crowley  - To the Skaff Family
    This is so very, very sad. We are sorry to know of Stephen's passing. Please know that Lisa, the girls, and the entire Skaff family are in our thoughts and prayers.
  • Mary Wheeler
    My deepest sympathy to Steve's family. I worked with Steve his first year at the Arlington School. He was a kind and caring teacher who brought out the best in all the students and staff members lives he touched.
  • Susan Stein  - Dear Lisa, Lily, & Sara
    Steve will never be forgotten, he will always be in your hearts and your memories!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!! Lots of love to you all. From, Susan, Alyssa, & Rachel Stein
  • Kate Nelson  - In loving memory
    Steve was a terrific person and a wonderful person. He will be missed. God bless you at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Valerie David Duncan  - Cousin Stephen
    You will be so missed by all your family. Your dry sense of humor, your love of sports and most of all the love you have for Lisa and your daughters. Those were your brightest stars. And now you are the brightest star. Your suffering is over my cousin. We will all carry you in our minds, hearts and souls always. Rest in peace and may your memory be eternal. Love you: Val & Steve
  • Michael and Troydean Alexander  - Cousin
    God wanted a "perfect Angel" and he got one this day with Stephen... May his Memory Be Eternal.. God Bless and Be with his entire family during this sad time and beyond..
  • Pat Cossette  - Dear Lisa & girls
    We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband / Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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